Many
people are in the habit of arguing. When the ego in us gets bloated,
we would like to argue. The more we argue, the more we lose the
ability of the discerning mind to know the truth, be open-minded
and stick to the negative thought of defending one's view-point.
At times an argument begins for some reason, arrogance crops up
and although we know that the point of the other side is true, we
would not accept it. We fear that upon accepting their point, our
self-esteem may be lowered. We feel egoistic because we think that
we are rich, famous, talented or the unwillingness of not appreciating
the good of others. On some occasions we assume that acceptance
of others' views would mean acceptance of our mistakes and so we
prefer to argue further and fail to understand the loss of our energy.
In spite of our good nature, when others drag us into an argument,
it would be better to keep away from them and follow the guiding
rule of Baba, "no arguments but a simple reply is enough".
There would be no scope to argue if we follow His principle in true
spirit. If the argument becomes adamant, the anger leads to fight.
The precious time that could have been spent in devotional pursuits
might go waste. Hence, instead of getting involved in empty arguments,
let us make the most of life through spiritual practices.
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